Read 2 Samuel 12:1-15

Confronting Sin

Confronting sin is often awkward and embarrassing. Confronting the sin of a powerful person can be intimidating and at times dangerous. The prophet Nathan was tasked with exposing the sin of the king who had just murdered a man by putting him on the front lines of a battle. The king who had executed the giant Goliath. The king who killed the Amalekite who took credit for Saul’s death.

Wouldn’t you be nervous in such a situation? The Scriptures, however, do not reveal any hesitation or avoidance on Nathan’s part. “Then the Lord sent Nathan to David. And he came to him” (2 Samuel 12:1). Moses offered excuses when God called him; Jonah tried to run away! But Nathan simply did what God told him to do.

He began with a parable about a rich man who took advantage of a poor man. When the king heard the story, his “anger was greatly aroused against the man” (2 Samuel 12:5). David became so angry, in fact, that he said, “As the Lord lives, the man who has done this thing shall surely die! And he shall restore fourfold for the lamb, because he did this thing and because he had no pity” (2 Samuel 12:5-6).

David’s indignation was justified. It was righteous. How dare this rich man mistreat his neighbor? Who ever heard of such despicable behavior? Nathan took hold of the opportunity before him and answered the king, “You are the man!” (2 Samuel 12:7). A bold proclamation but a true one, and the very reason he was sent to the king.

David, though he was a godly man who feared the Almighty, had been overtaken by sin. He was tempted, and he gave in to that temptation. We are all responsible for our actions. We must answer for our decisions, and we cannot shift the blame to others—not even to Satan! He may be powerful (1 Peter 5:8), but he does not have the power to control us.

Nathan had a daunting task and he stepped up to the plate. May we all develop the spirit of Nathan in our dealings with sin! “Brethren, if a man is overtaken in any trespass, you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, considering yourself lest you also be tempted” (Galatians 6:1). Are you among those “who are spiritual” and fulfilling your duty?

Read 2 Samuel 11

In the Wrong Place at the Wrong Time

We’ve all heard stories about someone who has gotten “lucky” because they just happened to be “in the right place at the right time.” Maybe they caught a historic home run ball at a baseball game, or ran into a celebrity while eating at a restaurant and asked for an autograph.

What about those who are “in the wrong place at the wrong time” though? The Scriptures tell us about a time in David’s life when he was not where he should have been.

“It happened in the spring of the year, at the time when kings go out to battle, that David sent Joab and his servants with him, and all Israel; and they destroyed the people of Ammon and besieged Rabbah. But David remained at Jerusalem” (2 Samuel 11:1). The Scriptures do not say why David did not lead his men into battle, but since he was not where he should have been, he saw something he shouldn’t have seen.

“Then it happened one evening that David arose from his bed and walked on the roof of the king’s house. And from the roof he saw a woman bathing, and the woman was very beautiful to behold” (2 Samuel 11:2). Had David gone to battle, he would not have seen this beautiful woman bathing.

Having seen something he shouldn’t have seen, David thought something he shouldn’t have thought. Lust is a dangerous thing, as it often leads to inappropriate actions. Jesus warned, “If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell” (Matthew 5:29).

Being where he shouldn’t have been, seeing what he shouldn’t have seen, and thinking what he shouldn’t have though, all led David to do what he shouldn’t have done. “Then David sent messengers, and took her; and she came to him, and he lay with her; for she was cleansed from her impurity; and she returned to her house” (2 Samuel 11:4). David committed adultery with Bathsheba, the wife of Uriah, and then tried to cover up his sin!

It all started because David was in the wrong place at the wrong time. We have a choice to make. Will we place ourselves in the way of temptation or will we avoid going where sin lives?

Read 2 Samuel 9

Kindness

David made a commitment to his friend Jonathan that he would show kindness to his family. Many years after the death of Jonathan, David made good on that promise by seeking out those of the family of Saul who had survived. The son of Jonathan, Mephibosheth, was found. Mephibosheth had been lame since the age of five; he grew up and married and had a son of his own.

David assured Mephibosheth that he was not looking for vengeance against Saul’s house. “Do not fear, for I will surely show you kindness for Jonathan your father’s sake, and will restore to you all the land of Saul your grandfather; and you shall eat bread at my table continually” (2 Samuel 9:7).

Mephibosheth showed his gratitude toward David in humility, acknowledging his unworthiness of such an honor. “What is your servant, that you should look upon such a dead dog as I?” (2 Samuel 9:8). David fulfilled his vow to Jonathan and did all that he said he would do for Mephibosheth. “‘As for Mephibosheth,’ said the king, ‘he shall eat at my table like one of the king’s sons’” (2 Samuel 9:11).

Brother James Burton Coffman relates David’s kindness to the son of Jonathan to God’s kindness for all humanity. “Sinners all, we mortals, like Mephibosheth, have been wounded, crippled, because of the ‘fall’ of our progenitors in Eden. Like David did for Mephibosheth, God has honored and blessed us with the promise of eternal life, inviting us to feast at His table in the kingdom perpetually. Also, God does this, not because of any merit or righteousness on our part, but ‘for Jesus’ sake.’”

Do we appreciate God’s mercy as we should? Separated from Him because of our iniquity, and yet despite our rebellion and rejection, He leaves the door open for us to return. He does not want to execute judgment upon us; He wants to forgive us and fellowship with us. “The Lord is not slack concerning His promise, as some count slackness, but is longsuffering toward us, not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance” (2 Peter 3:9).

Let us accept His gracious offer and submit to Him in humility, and let us extend mercy to those around us just as He has extended mercy to us!